Friday, February 12, 2010

Tender Warrior


“We must combine the toughness of the serpent with the softness of the dove, a tough mind and a tender heart.”

Martin Luther King Jr.


For 4.5 years I have uttered prayers for my boys. Make them Tender Warriors, Lord. Who fight for the heart of the King. Make them compassionate for the hurting and the lost. Let it be not that they just fight, but that they fight for what is Right and Good and according to your Word, Oh Lord. There are enough warriors in this land, but please make their character tender.

I saw the work of God in C's heart this week (and an answer to prayer). Weekly he tells me of a little girl in his class whom the other kids are cruel to and daily make her cry. It took me a while to see it as a compassionate heart. Until one day he had learned about the word honor at church. Each kid was given a gold medal and was told to give it away to someone that needed to be honored. Someone who may be under-appreciated and needed to be shown respect.
Monday morning C decided to give his medal away to the little girl in his class who "cries a lot."
There were tears in my eyes as I watched him and as I tried to explain to his mother what it was all about. I finally saw that God has been growing a heart that is tender and compassionate in my son and that he is able to hear God's still small voice speak to him and obey.
Thank you Father for bending down and listeneing to me

In honor of my son, I baked a cake:)
White Chocolate Almond Cake
  • Melted butter for greasing the pan
  • 3 cups all-purpose flour
  • 2 teaspoons salt
  • 1 1/2 cups unsalted butter, at room temperature
  • 1 8 ounces cream cheese, at room temperature
  • 3 cups granulated sugar
  • 6 large eggs, at room temperature
  • 1 teaspoon vanilla extract
  • 1/2 teaspoon almond extract
  • 3 tablespoons milk
  • 1/2 cup finely chopped white chocolate

Directions
  1. Preheat oven to 350°F (175°C). Using a pastry brush or kitchen towel, lightly coat a 10" tube pan with melted butter.
  2. Sift together flour and salt in a medium bowl. Set aside.
  3. In a stand mixer with the paddle attachment, or with an electric beater, cream together the softened butter, cream cheese and sugar on medium-high speed until light and fluffy. This will take about 5 minutes, being sure to scrape down the sides of the bowl periodically. Add the eggs, one at a time, scraping down the sides again and beating well after each addition. Beat in vanilla and almond extracts.
  4. With the mixer on low, add the flour in two additions, alternating with the milk. Mix until just combined. With the mixer still on low (or with a rubber spatula), stir in the white chocolate. Pour the batter into the prepared pan, mounding the edges up slightly and leaving a bit of a furrow through the middle. Hit the pan against the counter to remove any trapped air bubbles.
  5. While cake is baking, combine the water, sugar and almond extract in a small saucepan over low heat. Cook until the sugar is dissolved and the syrup becomes thick.
  6. The cakes should be done after 75-85 minutes, until a cake tester inserted in the centre comes out clean and the top is golden brown. Allow to cool in pan, on a wire rack, for 10 minutes.
  7. Turn the cake out onto the rack (see note) and, use a pastry brush to coat the cake entirely with the syrup. Allow to cool completely.

and to close with this...........

Prayer for His Son, A
by: Douglas MacArthur, More Sower's Seeds

Build me a son, O Lord,
who will be strong enough to know when he is weak,
brave enough to face himself when he is afraid,

Build me a son,
whose wishes will not take the place of deeds...
Lead him, I pray, not in the path of ease and comfort,
but under the stress and spur of difficulties and challenges.

Let him learn to stand in the storm;
let him learn compassion for those who fall.

Build me a son,
whose heart is clear, whose goals will be high
a son who will master himself before he seeks to master others;
who will reach into the future, yet never forget the past.

And after all these things aer his, add, I pray,
enough of a sense of humor
so that he may always be serious
yet never take himeself too seriously...

Then, I, his father will dare to whisper,
"I have not lived in vain."



Saturday, February 6, 2010

What the boys are loving right now!


I often hear (from my sisters) about the weirdness of my kids. And though I can't really deny that claim, one thing I know for sure is how much they truly LOVE LIFE. We laugh hard every day and besides, finding joy in someone else's joy, well, that is LOVE!
Here are 14 things they are hard core loving right now! and yes they really do dress like this daily

1. Shared Love: Heart by Jars of Clay

Jars of Clay Heart Lyrics:
I let it get dark, so you'll see the stars
They'll say we're in love, we probably are
No mountains to climb,
papers to sign
Offer your heart, I've given you mine

One flag left to burn, one country to fall
One soul to pour out,
one love to catch all
No walls to defend, wars to align
[ Find more Lyrics on http://mp3lyrics.org/Eyio ]
Give me your heart, you already have mine
No mountains to climb, papers to sign
Offer your heart, I've given you mine

No mountains to climb, papers to sign
Offer your heart, I've given you mine
No walls to defend, wars to align
Give me your heart, you already have mine
Give me your heart, you already have mine
Offer your heart, I've given you mine
Lyrics:
Heart, Jars of Clay [end]


here is the
it is the boys favorite song to "belt out" in the car


2. Shared Love: Bikes
From the airplane window,while flying into San Francisco a few weeks ago, we saw gorgeous hilltops. To which Caeden's first response was, "Dad, I wish I would have brought my bike!"





3. Shared LOVE: Peter Pan (and all piratey things)


they role play from this movie every day and I love hearing
them talk to each other in their own pirate language:
"peter pan ahoy"
"what makes the red man red?"
"Captain Hook, you arve!" ( is that supposed to be Arse?)
"Tink, Tink, Tink"

4 &5 . Shared Love: Costumes changes and their PJ's

Owen in his "worker man" Pajamas
Caeden in his "doctor" pajamas

they dress up as Pirates, Cowboys, Firemen, Mommy, Daddy, Construction Workers, Doctors, Handy Men, and Super Heroes to name a few
Caeden had a "wear PJ's to school day" he wore his Doctor PJ's and was the cutest boy at school, in my humble opinion :)

homemade masks
caeden as daddy maybe?

6. Owen Loves: the Fire Truck

He places the plastic step stool on the back of his firetruck as a Topper
(just like Maurice's truck)
Before he can move on to his next task, he insists that his truck be parked and that usually requires "backing it in to his parking spot"



7. Owen Loves: Hats, and Helmets
as you can see from the photo above and below

8. Owen Loves: Singing
this video is proof



9. Owen Loves: Skating and Surfing
He turns anything and everything into something he can skate or surf on.
Below is a mobile photo I took at Gymnastic world. He literally moved all these mats from around the room so he could build his skate park and skate down his ramp. A little girl came up to tumble and was quite disappointed that she had no room for her somersault. He needs no wheels, just an object that is shaped in a rectangle, and preferably something he can jump off and his imagination soars.




10. Caeden Loves: To Dance
and I hope he never stops



11. Caeden Loves: Art
When he gets home from school he usually draws a picture
I wish I had taken a photo of his art the other day, he drew a picture of an entire zoo complete with snakes, giraffes, monkeys, and Daddy as the zoo keeper.
This is his drawing of Aunt Amber that he drew for show and tell at school last week.


12. Caeden Loves: Climbing trees
we don't have many great trees for climbing in our yard,
but he finds a way to the top nonetheless.


13. Caeden Loves: Reading from our Picture Bible

this year we are reading a story from the Kids' Bible every night before bed.
Each night I hear, "Mom, can we read the Bible tonight?"
I love that question. This particular Bible really brings the stories to life. They always ask a lot of questions about each story which brings up a lot of talk about God!
The pictures inside look like a comic strip

14. Caeden loves: This Jump Rope

of course he never uses it for its intended purpose, but rather for anything else he can think of like trying to tie up our feet or to tie the couch to the side table or to tow that same side table with the fire truck

Monday, February 1, 2010

Sisters


I wish we all lived closer to each other!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!







I love you........Will you be my Valentines? :)

Saturday, January 30, 2010

Family Mission Statement

This paragraph sums up how we want to lead our family:

"My parents worked hard to create a home atmosphere that encouraged us kids to take God seriously but not take ourselves too seriously. The flavor of Christianity they cultivated in our family was joyful, warm, inviting, hospitable, and real, not legalistic or oppressive. We laughed hard and often mostly at ourselves. We were trained to think deeply about God, to feel passionately for God, and to live urgently in response to God. The gospel according to my parents needed to be understood with our heads, felt with our hearts, and worked out with our hands. Anything short of this was a less-than balanced expresson of true Christianity. They taught us to think, to read, to pray, to sing, to cry to love, to serve."
--Tullian Tchividjian
from the book Unfashionable


Well Said

Friday, January 29, 2010

Pacifica, Ca


I just happened to hear on the story on the news of Pacifica, California. I guess certain parts of the ocean cliffs are eroding and homes are threatened to fall into the ocean. If you care to read or see images, Go to this link.



The reason it struck an interest is because we were just there the other day. The day before we left San Fran. Mike wanted to go see the Pacific Ocean's waves and maybe catch a glimpse of people surfing. The weather had been rainy. When we got to the shore, it wasn't raining anymore, but really really windy and cold. Owen kept saying, "I don't like this place" which is why you won't see any pictures of his face :)





It was a beautiful place to visit, no surfers however due to the weather. If i had the choice of living in San Fran, this place is by far the best: gorgeous ocean views, much better than living crammed among the houses in the heart of the city and only about 15 minutes outside of everything, (if that).








Although this view is that bad either. Mike took this pic after we drove up to Twin Peaks, a mountain top view of the city lights. Notice the Golden Gate bridge in the distance. Owen wasn't crazy about his place either, "I'm really cold."

Saturday, January 23, 2010

Haiti Relief

I believe it was last summer when a missionary named Brad Johnson spoke at our church. His story was a resonating and powerful testimony of what happens when a couple says "Yes" to God's calling.
They founded Mission of Hope Haiti and here is the link to their Website
Summit Church has been rallying medical teams to go serve in Haiti. Tonight during the service they told a story of a young girl whom they thought had lost her parents, so they sent her to the Mission of Hope orphanage. The next day the leaders of the team learned that she had been a child slave and there were 2 different families fighting over her and wanting her back. So not only was she saved from the nightmare of being injured in the Earthquake, but also saved her from continuing in the nightmare of a life in childhood slavery. She is safe in the loving arms of the Christian orphange who can tell her of God's love and purpose for her life. The following is an email sent from one of our pastors, Todd Milby, who is still in Haiti.


I have been on the ground in Port-au-Prince this last week and am currently there now. Yesterday the first of potentially three medical teams from Summit returned home and we have mobilized all kinds of resources for our partner, Mission of Hope Haiti, because of your generosity. I say potentially, because right now we cannot confirm the other flights for this Tuesday and Wednesday from our partner Missionary Flights International. Today there are 120 landing slots into Port-au-Prince and 1700 planes wanting to land. We had a team from Austin, TX coming in today and got their landing permission revoked at the last minute and rescheduled for tomorrow afternoon. They have significant contacts and still couldn't land.

In spite of having a hard time getting people and resources into Haiti, Mission of Hope has distributed 1.5 million meals to the Haitian people since the earthquake hit. Last Thursday they distributed more than 391,056 meals, almost doubling the efforts of the UN. They do all of this through indigenous church leaders and Christian ministries that make up over 1000 distribution points in a network MOH initiated called Haiti One. Haiti One represents 40 Christians NGOs, and hundreds of smaller missions and Haitian churches with more than 5000 full-time staff represented in it. They are rallied around the vision to reach the nation with the Gospel and during this difficult time have been extremely effective at bringing relief where it is most needed distributing food, water, and temporary shelter. They were already in place and operating this network prior to the disaster and that is why they have been so successful. It is primarily driven by Haitians which is also the reason for their success. It is their own people meeting the needs. They know their culture, context, and the need. Mission of Hope has also provided and facilitated dozens of medical teams that have literally served thousands in the name of the Gospel.

Mission of Hope Haiti was established 12 years ago by their President, Brad Johnson. NBC Nightly News did a story about them last Tuesday on the "Making a Difference" segment with Brian Williams. The link to view the story is on their website,www.missionofhopehaiti.org. I hope you will be able to share this very effective and on-mission organization with others so we can partner with MOH to reach this nation. It might be Haiti's darkest hour, but it will be the Churches brightest. Thank you Summit Church for your generosity and sending myself and our team the opportunity to go on behalf of the Church to reach this nation in what will be a defining moment in it's history that will bring much glory to the Father.

God Bless,
Todd Milby,
Mission Leader



God so moved me that I gave my name as a volunteer willing to go with the medical teams when they are ready to accept Physical Therapists. When this will happen, I don't know, but I ask that whoever reads this will pray for me and all that this willingness entails. From safety over there, to the necessary materials and products I may need, to safety and understanding for my family here, etc.!
Right now I just know that I need to be willing and if God allows, then I will go!

This is the link to view the NBC video about Mission of Hope


Wednesday, January 20, 2010

I hate goodbyes












Brad and Heather have left for Argentina. My sister and her family heard God's call to missions nearly 2 years ago. Today is the day they have been planning so hard for and I am still not ready to let them go. I am so excited to watch God's handiwork in their lives, but a one way ticket to South America with no plans of returning does not thrill me too much. I have loved spending time with her lately and my boys are so crazy about their cousins.
It is an incredible thing when God's purpose is lived out among his believers!
We love you Ives family and will miss you daily and tremendously!

"The LORD bless you
and keep you;

the LORD make his face shine upon you
and be gracious to you;

the LORD turn his face toward you
and give you peace."

Sunday, January 17, 2010

The wedding pictures

Hey
I have had no time to post lately, but here are the links to the photographers website for my sister's wedding. Take a look if you like :)



Tuesday, January 12, 2010

House for Sale

We have a wonderful realtor whose name is Heather Wightman. You can find her on Treasuremyhome.com
and while you are there you can click on this link and Go visit our House .
We just got news this morning that we got an offer on it.
Going to sign the papers this afternoon, so I will keep you posted.
Praise God!!
I am excited for what is next!
me

Wednesday, January 6, 2010

Two Great Men


This morning we are mourning the loss of the life of Mike's Grandfather, Arlton Connell. Two years ago on this very same day, My grandfather, Ed Wallen, passed away as well.
Arlton grew up in Central Florida, worked as a Railroad Engineer.
Ed grew up in Northern Pennsylvania and worked in the Steel Mill.
Two great men, neither of which lived this life with much money, power, or fame. But, nontheless had tremendous influence in the lives of those they loved. Both men will continue to be missed.



Arlton Connell




Ed Wallen